What is it exactly that makes a woman see a
man as
romantic? Most of the time it's the
little things that women notice. A glance, a
quick touch or brush across her back. Sure,
flowers are nice, but haven't they almost
become a cliché. That's not to say women
don't like flowers because they do, but if
that's all you've got then it will only go
so far. You have to mix it up, change your
style and use your imagination to
create
romantic moments.
Creating romantic moments is so easy it’s a
wonder every man in the world doesn’t “get”
this. All you have to do is think of an
activity built around something she likes to
do. Does she like shopping (not something
men even like to think about much less do),
fine dining, walks on a beach, watching
movies and the list goes on.
It's all about doing something she likes
with her. What will make such activities
seem even more romantic to her is if you
choose to do something she likes to do with
her when a ball game is on TV that you could
be watching with your buddies. She will feel
chosen…and that, sir, is VERY romantic
indeed.
It doesn’t matter which activity to choose
to participate in with the woman that you
want to think of you as romantic. The trick
is for you to be totally involved mentally
in the activity and not staring off into
space or obviously just wishing it were over
so you could go do what you really want to
do. Remember this is you
trying to be
romantic so concentrate on the project at
hand.
It must be really tough. Do you think you are just a victim of
bad luck and that’s the reason Ms. Perfect hasn’t appeared in
your life yet? Or have you decided that maybe Ms. Perfect only
exists on movie screens and not out here in the real world?
BINGO! You’ve got it. She doesn’t exist anywhere except in your
imagination and on movie screens.
The truth of the matter is that the reason Ms.
Perfect hasn't appeared has nothing to do with your luck, good
or bad, but everything to do with you and the fact that you are
busy looking for a person that doesn't exist! You can't date
with your eyes closed and some impossible dream in your head.
You'll get so caught up in this whole exercise of
dating that
you forget to look for the qualities you seek! You haven't met
the person of your dreams because you aren't looking for the
things that will make them close enough to perfect for you.
You are so confident that every woman you have met could not
give you what you wanted.
But what was it that you wanted in the first place? Once you are
sure of what you want, you will know exactly what to look for in
your woman. What are the qualities that you feel are necessary
in a person? What are the attributes you are willing to make a
compromise on? Have you thought about all these?
Remember, that
nobody on this earth is perfect.
Everybody has faults…some are bigger faults than other faults.
Some are faults you can overlook and some are faults that you
couldn’t overlook on your best day and if she was the most
beautiful,
most sexy woman on the planet.
When you meet a woman, remember, however hard you try to impress
others, you cannot control their thought processes. Instead, it’s
far better to concentrate on your needs and desires, and how
much of what you need would be fulfilled if you dated this
woman.
