Meeting women that you would actually want
to
date and, maybe eventually, bring home to
meet mom and dad, isn’t as hard as it sounds.
There is, of course, the singles scene out
in the bars and clubs all over town but I
don’t recommend that one. It’s not that just
bad girls go to bars; it’s that it is hard
to tell the good ones from the bad one.
You
meet women at work, too,
but, there again, I don’t recommend
dating
them. The problem with that is that, if
things don’t work out, you will still have
to work together and the situation could be
awkward to say the least.
Your friends know women that you haven’t met
- sisters, cousins, etc. Ask them to
introduce you to them. But, big brother, do
avoid
blind dates. Those things hardly ever
work out and you can spend a lot of money
for a very
uncomfortable evening.
The best places to meet women that you might
actually want to date are at clubs and
organizations that you belong to. You will
already have something in common with them
and will have had the opportunity to see
them interact with other people and that
tells you a lot about a person. If you aren’t
already involved with any clubs or
organizations the, for heaven sakes, join
some. Find ones that are all about something
you are interested in. There are clubs and
organizations that cover just about anything
you can think of from astronomy to zoology
and single women are involved in all of them.
Church is an excellent place to meet women.
If there aren’t any
single women in the
church you go to now, visit other churches
until you find one where there are single
women. The church itself will provide you
with an opportunity to get to know the woman
before you ask her for a date. You will be a
lot more comfortable and so will she.
Get involved in civic
organizations.
Women love men who are civic
minded. They admire men who are willing to
“give back”. And what about political
campaigns? You will meet a lot of young
women who are passionate about politics.
If all else fails, join a good online dating
service. You will meet a lot of eligible
women. You can read their profiles and see
pictures of them. After you get to know one
well enough to ask her for a face-to-face
meeting, be sure that you plan the meeting
during daylight hours and in a public place.
Places to Meet Women to Date
After you have exchanged glances and smiles across a room and
you are fairly confident that SHE thinks that she might like to
get to know you better, send a drink to her. But remember that
ALL you are buying is a drink. Don’t expect her to fall at your
feet. Sometimes it is nice just to send someone a drink, watch
when she receives it and smile, then look away – look back again
later to show your interest.
If you find yourself invited to her table, keep
you mind on the conversation and not on
getting a date
with her.
Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out
with long before they actually go out with them. Make an effort
to get to know her and give her the opportunity to get to know
you before diving in for a date.
Do not ever approach two women in the same group. No woman wants
to feel like second best. Refrain from approaching one after
another in the same group. You look like a loser and the women
may think you are desperate and looking for any port in a storm.
Even if you are, don’t show it.
When you compliment a woman make certain that it is a genuine
compliment. There’s nothing worse than someone giving out a load
of overblown lines. Everyone has something great about them,
notice that and compliment them genuinely.
Do not ever put your hands on a woman uninvited. Some women have
no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, others are horrified
by it.
Respect the person until you have had the opportunity to know
more about her. Touching can be a
lovely flirty action, but
should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above
the arms and NOT touching, until you know more.
Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the reactions
then moving back a little to remove the threat.
Respect yourself at all times. Women always fall
for men who are that little bit unreachable. Don't hover or
grovel or act desperate. Think of yourself as special and know
what you deserve the very best.
